How does one succeed in life?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

How does gut health affect mental well-being?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why do I feel so lazy every time I get into my room?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What a list actors/ actresses are notorious for being jerks in real life?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

In what ways is modern day Russia similar to the USSR? How does it differ from the USSR in terms of culture and politics?

Procrastinates a lot.

Ask yourself:

That's it for today.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

What I need from you?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why do most men who date ugly women brag like it's some big accomplishment, when any guy can pull an ugly woman?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What should you do if a police officer comes to your house and asks for someone who doesn't live there anymore?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Why won't biden give a last minute deferred action TO ALL undocumented immigrants so Trump can't deport them? Obama issued DACA, why can't Biden issue something similar that protects ALL undocumented immigrants from deportation?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Canadians went out of their way to help Americans stranded in Canada after 9.11.2001. Why did Canadians help so much the way they did? We read that Canadians don't particularly like Americans to begin with.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Who are the actual "science deniers": people who wait until vaccines are proven effective, or people who believe that there are more than two genders?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).